Ancestral Homcoming CommuniTEA: biweekly online co-learning space for Chinese Diaspora folks
Ancestral Homecoming
CommuniTEA
An Online Space for Chinese Diaspora to
Reconnect with Our Roots, Reclaim Our Wholeness
Biweekly Tuesdays Online Starting Jan 14, 2025
Heartfelt talks and sharing circles facilitated by psychotherapist Xuel and holistic wellness coach Tian Tian with speakers that will guide you toward a deeper sense of belonging and a true sense of home within yourself
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Week 1: Jan 14, 2025 “Our Stories” :Sharing Circle with Tiantian, Xuel and You
A session focused on personal storytelling of our roots and our journey of ancestral homecoming. Tian Tian and Xuel will lead an introduction and we will break out into sharing groups.
Week 2: Jan 28, 2025 “You Are What You Eat”: Food, physical health, body
A discussion, during Chinese New Years day, on embodied spirituality through the lens of food as a cultivation practice. We will share Eastern perspectives on elemental nourishment, attuning with your local environment and the seasons and hear your relationship with food.
Week 3: Feb 11, 2025 “Our Money Stories”: What is your inherited narrative about money?
Our money story is deeply intertwined with intergenerational memories of security and coping strategies. We will explore this fascinating topic through constellation work and small group discussions.
Week 4: Feb 25, 2025 Authentic Relating Game Night
An interactive session featuring various connection exercises and games, culminating in reflections about deep connection experiences in a Chinese-diaspora-only space.
Week 5: Mar 11, 2025 Embodied Spirituality: Ancestral Honoring Practices
A session introducing the many forms of Ancestral Honoring as a spiritual practice: meditation, visualization, seasonal attunement, altar work, prayer and more. Tian Tian and Xuel will introduce their approach and invite folks to share their personal practices.
Week 6: Mar 25, 2025 Chosen family, friendship, community
An exploration on how to find our chosen family and build nourishing friendships as adults. We will discuss multicultural aspects of friendship and community and ways to clarify our values and customize our priorities.
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Ancestral Blessings & Grief Ceremony (in person @Oakland)
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Join us for a self-discovery journey with our series: Inner Homecoming: Finding Your Way to Ancestral Honoring Practices.
In this thirds workshop of the series: Ancestral Blessings and Grief Ceremony, we will cocreate an container of honoring our ancestral lineages and allowing the flow of grief and love in the format of an in person collective ancestral ceremony.
*Address will be share in an email after registation
Is This Workshop Right for You?
If you're drawn to the idea of creating a dedicated meeting space for ancestral honor and are curious about the deeper connections within your family lineage, this workshop is designed for you. It's ideal for those seeking to integrate ancestral wisdom into their daily lives and spiritual practices.
Workshop Overview:
Part 1: Introduction
group introductions and introductions to the work
understand different elements to ancestral honoring ritual in the context of Eastern and indigenous traditions as well as our personal journeys
Part 2: Ancestral Circle Cocreation and Ancestral Mini Constellation
cocreate a group circle by naming our ancestors and place ancestral offerings to a collective altar
tap into a somatic felt sense of your ancestors through an Ancestral Constellation exercise. This powerful practice helps illuminate a direct connection with those who came before you, how they feel toward, how to best align a relationship with them
Part 3: Ceremony
group ceremony: centering cycle of life, releasing grief and receiving blessings
cocreate a circle of introduction, inquiry, discussion and ritual that holds everyone and our ancestor lineages present
Part 4: Sound Bath Journey: Integration & Effortless Meditation
energetically integrate by simply lying down and enjoy the effortless meditation through a journey of sounds
WHO this workshop series is for?
Anyone on a quest for deeper self-understanding and clarity about your purpose and your place in the world
Anyone who feel a deeper calling to connect with your roots and find ancestral belonging
Anyone who is interested in realigning with right relationship with our ancestors and the world around us
Anyone who is curious to establish a personal Ancestral Practice that feels authentic, connecting and supportive to YOU which may or may not diverge from, draw inspirations from, entrain with, or integrates various cultural, spiritual and religious practices
What is this workshop series NOT about?
This is NOT a workshop that subscribes to a fixed way of connecting and honoring our ancestors
This is NOT a workshop that strictly adhere to one cultural and spiritual ancestral lineage practice
This is NOT a workshop that teaches genealogy research or requires you to know your ancestry
This is NOT an ancestral trauma healing group therapy
This is NOT only for Chinese-lineage folks, although both facilitators come from Chinese-lineages
You don't need to attend previous workshops to be able to particpate in this workshop.
About the Series
"Inner Homecoming: Finding Your Way to Ancestral Honoring Practices" is a deeply enriching series designed for those seeking to forge a deeper connection with their roots and discover the profound impact of ancestral honoring on personal growth and healing. Through a carefully curated journey of four workshops, participants will explore the multifaceted dimensions of ancestral work, from understanding its foundational principles, connecting directly with our ancestors, to integrating these practices into their daily lives.
Workshop 1: Foundations of Ancestral Work (Thursday 4/4 6:30-9PM, Online)
Workshop 2: Deepening Ancestral Connections & Altar Work (Sunday 4/14, 10:00-1:00PM Online)
Workshop 3: Healing with Ancestral Blessings & Grief Ceremony (Sunday, 4/21 1-6PM, Oakland)
Integration Call: Crafting Your Personal Ancestral Practice & Community Integration (Sunday, 4/28 6-8PM Online)
Each of the 3 workshops in this series both stand alone as a unique event and build on top of each other. You can buy tickets and attend for just one workshop, or you may purchase a discounted package for all 3 workshops + integration call for this series.
About the Facilitators
Xuel Sun (she/her) is a bilingual/bicultural psychotherapist-healer, facilitator and intuitive guide based in Berkeley, CA. Her fascination with ancestral lands, spirits and honoring practices started when she grew up in Nanjing, China and unfolded as she moved to California at age 17, lived in Hawaii during Covid, conducted field research in Bali and Yunnan and started creating ancestral honoring workshop in 2021.
Her background in Eastern and Indigenous wisdom traditions deeply informs her work. Her workshops and psychotherapy practice aim to serve the earth community by weaving together ecological and collective healing, social change, magic, and the arts.
more: www.xuelsun.com
Tian Tian (she/her) is an artist and healing artist. At age 11, Tian Tian immigrated to the US from China and adopted the name Mary. Her path since then has been one of high achievement and external success, from an Ivy League school to Wall Street and Silicon Valley, epitomizing the immigrant's pursuit of the "American Dream." Yet, amidst these accolades, she yearned for more meaning and soul fulfillment.
In her journey of self-discovery, Tian Tian reconnected with her Chinese heritage, reclaimed her Chinese name and ultimately gained clarity of her soul’s purpose. Now, as an artist and healing artist, Tian Tian uses holistic healing modalities rooted in Chinese traditions, such as sound healing, yin/Daoist yoga, breathwork, human design, and art therapy, to help others to connect to the wisdom of their body, heart, and soul. Her mission is to guide others in gaining awareness of who they are, uncovering their unique gifts, so that their lives can flow with ease and joy.
more: www.tiantianwellness.com

Deepening Ancestral Connections & Altar Work
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Join us for a self-discovery journey with our series: Inner Homecoming: Finding Your Way to Ancestral Honoring Practices.
In this second workshop of the series: Deepening Ancestral Connections & Altar Work. we will offer a hands-on approach to understanding and honoring your lineage, combining the creation of personal altars with the immersive experience of Ancestral Constellation and meditation.
Is This Workshop Right for You?
If you're drawn to the idea of creating a dedicated meeting space for ancestral honor and are curious about the deeper connections within your family lineage, this workshop is designed for you. It's ideal for those seeking to integrate ancestral wisdom into their daily lives and spiritual practices.
Workshop Overview:
Part 1: Connecting to Ancestral Guides & Altar Work
understand ancestral heritages as foundational to human life on earth
how to connect to ancestral guides and ancestral lands that are distant, disconnceted and unknown
introduction of Altar Work as a tool for ancestral connection: significance of altars in ancestral work and how to personalize your space to reflect your spiritual journey and ancestral heritage
Part 2: Naming and Honoring + Ancestral Mini Constellation
naming and honoring ancestral lineages of each person in the circle
tap into a somatic felt sense of your ancestors through an Ancestral Constellation exercise. This powerful practice helps illuminate a direct connection with those who came before you, how they feel toward, how to best align a relationship with them
Part 3: Discussion, group sharing and Q&A
WHO this workshop series is for?
Anyone on a quest for deeper self-understanding and clarity about your purpose and your place in the world
Anyone who feel a deeper calling to connect with your roots and find ancestral belonging
Anyone who is interested in realigning with right relationship with our ancestors and the world around us
Anyone who is curious to establish a personal Ancestral Practice that feels authentic, connecting and supportive to YOU which may or may not diverge from, draw inspirations from, entrain with, or integrates various cultural, spiritual and religious practices
What is this workshop series NOT about?
This is NOT a workshop that subscribes to a fixed way of connecting and honoring our ancestors
This is NOT a workshop that strictly adhere to one cultural and spiritual ancestral lineage practice
This is NOT a workshop that teaches genealogy research or requires you to know your ancestry
This is NOT an ancestral trauma healing group therapy
This is NOT only for Chinese-lineage folks, although both facilitators come from Chinese-lineages
You don't need to attend workshop 1 in order to attend workshop 2.
About the Series
"Inner Homecoming: Finding Your Way to Ancestral Honoring Practices" is a deeply enriching series designed for those seeking to forge a deeper connection with their roots and discover the profound impact of ancestral honoring on personal growth and healing. Through a carefully curated journey of four workshops, participants will explore the multifaceted dimensions of ancestral work, from understanding its foundational principles, connecting directly with our ancestors, to integrating these practices into their daily lives.
Workshop 1: Foundations of Ancestral Work (Thursday 4/4 6:30-9PM, Online)
Workshop 2: Deepening Ancestral Connections & Altar Work (Sunday 4/14, 10:00-1:00PM Online)
Workshop 3: Healing with Ancestral Blessings & Grief Ceremony (Sunday, 4/21 1-6PM, Oakland)
Integration Call: Crafting Your Personal Ancestral Practice & Community Integration (Sunday, 4/28 6-8PM Online)
Each of the 3 workshops in this series both stand alone as a unique event and build on top of each other. You can buy tickets and attend for just one workshop, or you may purchase a discounted package for all 3 workshops + integration call for this series.
About the Facilitators
Xuel Sun (she/her) is a bilingual/bicultural psychotherapist-healer, facilitator and intuitive guide based in Berkeley, CA. Her fascination with ancestral lands, spirits and honoring practices started when she grew up in Nanjing, China and unfolded as she moved to California at age 17, lived in Hawaii during Covid, conducted field research in Bali and Yunnan and started creating ancestral honoring workshop in 2021.
Her background in Eastern and Indigenous wisdom traditions deeply informs her work. Her workshops and psychotherapy practice aim to serve the earth community by weaving together ecological and collective healing, social change, magic, and the arts.
more: www.xuelsun.com
Tian Tian (she/her) is an artist and healing artist. At age 11, Tian Tian immigrated to the US from China and adopted the name Mary. Her path since then has been one of high achievement and external success, from an Ivy League school to Wall Street and Silicon Valley, epitomizing the immigrant's pursuit of the "American Dream." Yet, amidst these accolades, she yearned for more meaning and soul fulfillment.
In her journey of self-discovery, Tian Tian reconnected with her Chinese heritage, reclaimed her Chinese name and ultimately gained clarity of her soul’s purpose. Now, as an artist and healing artist, Tian Tian uses holistic healing modalities rooted in Chinese traditions, such as sound healing, yin/Daoist yoga, breathwork, human design, and art therapy, to help others to connect to the wisdom of their body, heart, and soul. Her mission is to guide others in gaining awareness of who they are, uncovering their unique gifts, so that their lives can flow with ease and joy.
more: www.tiantianwellness.com

Introduction to Ancestral Work
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April 4th is the traditional day called Qing Ming in Chinese lunar calendar that is dedicated to honoring our ancestors. Traditionally, people conduct offerings, tomb visitings and rituals to their ancestor's place in the family and ask for blessings and protection. However, for many of us either as part of the diasporic population or have lived far away from ancestral lands for generations, we no longer hold a living, authentic, and connective practice that feel true to who we are and connects us to our lineage and ancestors.
So how do we find our way back to connecting our ancestors?
How does one establish a relationship with ancestors that you know little about?
How could discovering our ancestral belonging that might be the antidote to our loneliness, lack of belonging, and sense of drifting and scarcity? And ... how could opening up to wise and kind ancestral supporting allow us tap into our own ancestral trust fund and heal our money or abandonment wounds?
Xuel and Tian tian have been exploring this topics as members of the diasporic Chinese community and experimenting modern ways of ancestral honoring and healing throughout their personal healing journey and professional practice.
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Join us for a self-discovery journey with our series: Inner Homecoming: Finding Your Way to Ancestral Honoring Practices.
The first workshop of the series: Introduction to Ancestral Work, we will learn what ancestral work entails, and why it is pivotal in our journey of self-discovery and healing. Begin your exploration with an assessment of your ancestral lineage, opening the doors to the stories and legacies that have shaped you.
This workshop is an open invitation for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of themselves, explore the nuances of their identity, and uncover the unseen influences that shape their life's narrative.
Is This Workshop Right for You?
Are you on a quest for deeper self-understanding and clarity about your purpose and your place in the world?
Do you feel a deeper calling to connect with your roots in a way that enlightens your personal journey?
Are you interested in aligning with right relationship with our ancestors and the world around us?
Are you curious about establishing a personal Ancestral Practice that feels authentic, connecting and supportive to you ?
If these questions spark a sense of curiosity and recognition, this workshop is meant for you.
What does this workshop entail?
part 1: What is ancestral work and why do we do it?
The initial segment of "Inner Homecoming" delves into the essence of ancestral work and its pivotal role in self-discovery. You will enagage with:
Xuel and Tian Tian’s personal story with ancestral work
who are our "ancestors", what ancestral work entails, why it's a crucial component of understanding ourselves, and how our forebears' legacies, wisdom, and unresolved narratives influence our present and futur
a discussion that could shed light on the meaning of connecting with our roots and equip you with articulating the “why” for this sacred exploration.
part 2: Experiential Ancestral Lineage Assessment & Discussion
In the second segment, we transition to a more hands-on approach, guiding you through an experiential exploration of the ancestral influences that have shaped you. We will share:
tips and guidance on beginning ancestral work
an guided experiential activity that help you assess your ancestral lineages
interactive discussions, q&a, and group shares, you'll gain insights into your unique story, helping you to understand yourself better and navigate your path with greater awareness.
What is this workshop series NOT about?
This is NOT a workshop that subscribes to a fixed way of connecting and honoring our ancestors
This is NOT a workshop that strictly adhere to one cultural and spiritual ancestral lineage practice
This is NOT a workshop that teaches genealogy research or requires you to know your ancestry
This is NOT an ancestral trauma healing group therapy
This is NOT only for Chinese-lineage folks, although both facilitators come from Chinese-lineages
About the Series
"Inner Homecoming: Finding Your Way to Ancestral Honoring Practices" is a deeply enriching series designed for those seeking to forge a deeper connection with their roots and discover the profound impact of ancestral honoring on personal growth and healing. Through a carefully curated journey of three workshops and an integration call, participants will explore the multifaceted dimensions of ancestral work, from understanding its foundational principles, connecting directly with our ancestors, to integrating these practices into their daily lives.
Workshop 1: Foundations of Ancestral Work (Thursday 4/4 6:30-9PM, Online)
Workshop 2: Deepening Ancestral Connections & Altar Work (Sunday 4/14, 10:00-1:00PM Online)
Workshop 3: Healing with Ancestral Blessings & Grief Ceremony (Sunday, 4/21 1-6PM, Oakland)
Integration Call: Crafting Your Personal Ancestral Practice & Community Integration (Sunday, 4/28 6-8PM Online)
>>> Each of the 3 workshops in this series both stand alone as a unique event and build on top of each other. You can buy tickets and attend for just one workshop, or you may purchase a discounted package for all 3 workshops + integration call for this series. <<<
About the Facilitators
Xuel Sun (she/her) is a bilingual/bicultural psychotherapist-healer, facilitator and intuitive guide based in Berkeley, CA. Her fascination with ancestral lands, spirits and honoring practices started when she grew up in Nanjing, China and unfolded as she moved to California at age 17, lived in Hawaii during Covid, conducted field research in Bali and Yunnan and started creating ancestral honoring workshop in 2021.Her background in Eastern and Indigenous wisdom traditions deeply informs her work. Her workshops and psychotherapy practice aim to serve the earth community by weaving together ecological and collective healing, social change, magic, and the arts.
more: www.xuelsun.com
Tian Tian (She/her) At age 11, Tian Tian immigrated to the US from China and adopted the name Mary. Her path since then has been one of high achievement and external success, from an Ivy League school to Wall Street and Silicon Valley, epitomizing the immigrant's pursuit of the "American Dream." Yet, amidst these accolades, she yearned for more meaning and soul fulfillment.In her journey of self-discovery, Tian Tian reconnected with her Chinese heritage and ancestral roots, reclaimed her Chinese name and ultimately gained clarity of her soul’s purpose. Now, as an artist and healing artist, Tian Tian uses holistic healing modalities rooted in Chinese traditions, such as sound healing, yin/Daoist yoga, breathwork, human design, and art therapy, to help others to connect to the wisdom of their body, heart, and soul. Her mission is to guide others in gaining awareness of who they are, uncovering their unique gifts, so that their lives can flow with ease and joy.
more: www.tiantianwellness.com


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