Somatic Mindfulness・Internal Family System Therapy・Ancestral Wisdom・中文整合咨询
Empowered by a field of love
inner resourcing for courageous humans who are ready to transform old patterns & unlock new levels of ease & aliveness in their life
Multicultural Sensitive, LGBTQ+ friendly, Poly Friendly, Sex Positive, Kink Positive, Neurodiversity Honoring
You crave a life where you no longer have to perform to be worthy.
You are a deep thinker and feeler but your feel suppressed in your power.
You don’t want to play victim anymore.
You know that you’ve been sabotaging your own dreams.
You are exhausted by the inner war inside you. And so, so ready to reclaim your truth.
Maybe you’re like many of the people I work with, even though you’ve achieved so many beautiful things, you are exhausted.
Maybe you are
caught in cycles of overworking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing
haunted by internalized doubt, criticism and shame
disconnected from your body’s wisdom — always so caught up in your head
grieving silently: the loss of deep connections, aliveness, belonging, or joy
living out generational scripts of suppression, sacrifice, and compromise
I get you. I’ve been there. And I know how hard it could be. And I know that the change you seek is also seeking you.
You don’t need to push yourself harder.
You need more inner resource so it’s easier for you to do hard things.
That’s why I offer services to help you unblock what’s in your way of staying present and graceful with what life has in store for you.
We don’t do traditional talk therapy that’s just a crutch for your old patterns here.
Instead, we have real talks on what is actually happening and what do you really want.
We slow down to listen to the unspoken voices in your body that carry wisdom and
equip you with practical tools so that you can be the lover, leader, parent, creator, visionary, cycle-breaker, trailblazer you’ve always desired to be.
You might surprise yourself.
Ready to for your breakthrough? Contact me via email to schedule a consultation call
Hey there, I am Xuel. 👋
I'm an ex-software-engineer-turned-psychotherapist-turned nomad, mystic, facilitator and writer.
My own healing journey led me to many roads less taken, through which I found balance to exist as a complex human in this strange modern world. That’s why as a therapist, I offer my skills to help you discover what you want and need — especially from parts that are seeking your own truth and .
You are not a normal human being and I am not your normal therapist. The support I offer my clients is alchemical – I walk alongside with a light as you integrate fragmented pieces of self so that you feel safe to move through the darkest places.
I get real with you. I offer practical tools AND deep energetic recalibration. I carry shamanic power from my lineage to help uncover the truth of your system and show you what it looks like to lead with both strength and softness.
If you resonate with my messaging, then come on in. Let’s connect.
Offerings
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Individual Therapy
online 1:1 integrative therapy sessions
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Couples Counseling
online couples therapy
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In-person Ancestral Homecoming Retreat in Dali, Yunnan, China
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Human Design Reading
individual calibration experience
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我作为心理工作者、数字游民的的文字回家之路
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中文整合咨询服务
专为华人设计的身心整合心理服务
Invest in Inner Foundations of well-being.
Embodied Awareness
Imagine being able to recognize and dialogue with the signal of your body so that you become a sovereign Queen / King who is in charge of your health, emotions, energy, beliefs and boundaries.
Grounded Being
Imagine no longer being burdened by your self-doubts and shame. Instead, you are centered in your authenticity and truth in the way you speak, touch, listen, move and respond.
Aligned Relating
Imagine being unfazed by other people's judgements and emotions, connected to your ability to love no matter the circumstances which allows you have ease in giving and receiving, communicating and decision-making, loving and being loved.
My Specialities
Internal Family System
level 2 trained - “the most effective psychotherapy for developmental trauma"
Cross-Cultural/Queer/ Poly/Non-traditional Couples
emotional intelligence and communication skills-building containers for courageous lovers
Thriving with Neurodiversity
understand your difference,
build emotional resilience, and embrace your unique strength
Life Force Energy, Sexuality & Shame
connect to your needs, desires and creative life energy through letting go of pain and limiting beliefs stored in your body
Spiritual & Psychedelic Integration
energy awareness & healing and support for spiritual / psychedelic/ transpersonal experiences
Somatic Mindfulness (via Tamura Method)
body-based therapeutic inquiry to drop into your sense awareness, move stuck energy and receive somatic wisdom
Intergenerational & Ancestral Healing for Asians
heal generational trauma and realign your connection to wise and kind ancestral support
Human Design Insights & Practices
accomplish more with less by recognizing your gifts and engaging your Human Design strategy
Upcoming events
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Ancestral Homecoming Retreat: 7 day / 6 night retreat in Dali, Yunnan, China April 22-28, 2025
